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[–]mangosplums 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Why is anime such a mainstay among these people? Not just trans people, or non-binary people, but so many people who otherwise have anxiety, depression, poor social skills, etc.? I can't say I've ever met anyone in my daily life who has a strong fondness for anime like these people. Or really anyone who has a moderately well-paying job, confidence, and good social skills.

Before transitioning to become a cute anime girl they could oh idk lose weight or build muscle, research how to dress smart, practice good hygiene, and be physically active with hobbies outside the internet and see if that helps their crippling self esteem and depression? It’s never a functional person fantasizing about this shit it’s always someone who doesn’t take care of themselves.

Because, porn. They get caught up in porn and the fantasy surrounding it and that's what causes this bizarre lack of relation to material reality.

[–]Solarcore 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

More about relationships and romance. Weeaboos are usually behind the curve in dating and all things involved. Anime hits that sweet spot nicely for crowds that have not managed to mature on those fronts IRL. Idealized imaginery and narratives without the all the messes to learn that is real world daring. I bet there would be less of all that if they’d get into decent relationship, love and sex ok their teens as most people do. Lonely people without enough intimacy, touch and love turn to anime or other means of coping. And surpise, trans-leaning ain’t in the hottest demand.