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    [–][deleted] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

    Yeah but I had a massive sex drive at that age rearing to go and I was spilling my fertile seed into nothing, why not teachers?

    [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    You're literally making excuses for pedophilia...

    A predator is a predator. It doesn't matter if the victim "enjoys" the encounter, he's still a child being exploited by an adult. A 13-year-old isn't mature enough to understand the emotions he's feeling in a situation like this.

    It's not uncommon for victims to "fall in love" with their abusers, and then spend the rest of their lives trying to cope with the psychological ramifications – confusion, guilt, resentment, etc.

    Many of them grow up to be abusers themselves, because their minds are stuck in the past with an unhealthy and unnatural definition of what "relationships" are.

    Adults should not be having sex with children under any circumstances.

    [–]Zapped 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    It sounds like the boy already had some emotional or mental problems and now he has this trauma to deal with the rest of his life. He had an authority figure take advantage of him emotionally and sexually at 13 years old. He will probably always have trust issues and may even reciprocate on another child.

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yes, predators often seek out victims who already have problems because it's easier to manipulate them. A child from a broken home might be desperate for an adult's attention, for example.

    Thank you for understanding.