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[–][deleted] 3 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

It's homecoming week, even parents who are otherwise normally strict buy their kids booze and hotel rooms. It has always puzzled me.

[–]StillLessons 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Buying their kids booze and hotel rooms assumes sex. BUT - and this is a huge but - the traditional assumption is that there will be sex between two students. That willingness to look the other way is still problematic, but it doesn't even approach the same magnitude as what's here.

Here we're talking about teachers and students. This is among the greatest power differentials that exist in traditional society. There have been many correctly fired teachers for abusing just that relationship of power over a student. But here to do so in the open public, assuming "Ha, ha, what fun!"??? Fuck. This is absolutely explicit sexual abuse according to just about any source you choose to look up what that term means. Well, until the past couple of years anyway...

[–][deleted] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You make good points and I'm not trying to be an asshole here, but why is it better that somebody's daughter gets pumped by an inexperienced cock exactly?

Who cares who fucks her unless they're hurting her?

There's always going to be a power differential.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's important for girls and women to have platonic relationships with men, ones where they don't have to worry that there are sexual intentions involved. This should include their fathers, other relatives, teachers, older males in general. It's just a healthy thing and culturally important.