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[–]Gaslov 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You don't find out you're gay. You aren't born with a predefined sexuality. Not only is there nothing in the genome to indicate homosexuality, people often become gay after trauma. I personally know someone who's 13 year old decided she's gay after a bad breakup with her boyfriend. And being enabled by her parents and social group probably means she'll be convinced she was born that way, long after forgetting the initial trauma that took her down this path.

Also, homosexuals are 7 times more likely to report sexual molestation in asolescense than their straight counterparts.

The born that way lie is such a massive fraud on the well meaning.

[–]Newzok 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You don't find out you're gay

Wtf yes you do. Every gay you'll ask will have a similar story. Anywhoo I had a pretty decent middle class childhood with no trauma, still turned out that way. I'm the youngest brother, maybe that's a factor. I've tried getting with females, man. It doesn't make any sparks fly. Trust me, it's just how I'm wired.

What teenage girls do should always be taken with a pinch of salt, she's probably just bisexual or acting out. But if she's truly a lesbian, be nice. At least she didn't latch onto the trans thing, which IMO is an acquired state for girls in that age range.

[–]Gaslov 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I don't doubt that vanilla sex wasn't exciting. But you weren't born that way. So you didn't experience mutual attraction, so what? Not a lot of people do. So you decided to get off on perversion instead. You guys are like drug addicts, willing to claim whatever you need to to keep getting what you want. Imagine drug addicts claiming they're born that way and demanding protections.

[–]Newzok 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There's not really any arguing with you, but that's OK. I've stated my experience. I've got a bf, that's all I need and it feels right to me. Luck to you, brother.