You're right. This is why I have no sympathy when laws like the one in Russia get passed. Because we don't monitor our own behaviour within the gay community. It's like a war; when soldiers on your side are incompetent, you discipline them. When they break rules, you punish them. When they commit treason, you execute them. Otherwise your side loses the war. But for some reason, most gay people who aren't perverted or sociopathic are pussies. So the gay rights movement makes us look bad because we let the bad apples do what they want.