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[–]FThumbStay thirsty, my friends 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

By design. TPTB don't want people to be able to organize so easily.

[–]Xeenophile 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

...Thank Goodness???

[–]bucetao6969Im a guest here. Do not take my opinion as of a community member 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This isn't a good or bad thing. It simply explains why a ton of stuff is the way it is.

[–]hfxB0oyA 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Saidit only for me, thank you. The only good part of "social" media is the ability to be an anonymous crotchety old bastard.

[–]3andfro 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (7 children)

My dad would've loved it. He started building computers in his 80s (retired engineer). He had the Internet but not much in the way of social media at the time and was reduced to sending signed LTEs to the local rag and taking some flak for it.

[–]hfxB0oyA 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

It's the brotherhood of grumpy old men. If we're lucky to live long enough, we all join at some point or another.

[–]3andfro 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Grumpy old women outnumber grumpy old men as the years tick by, according to actuarial tables. ;D

[–]risistill me 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

You may want to double check that with u/FThumb. He's posted a least a couple of times that most WOTBers are women.

[–]NetweaselContinuing the struggle 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

He's posted a least a couple of times that most WOTBers are women.

I personally would bet-hedge and go with "at least half."

[–]FThumbStay thirsty, my friends 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

It's at least half.

[–]risistill me 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I am a relatively cautious poster, but I cannot hold a candle to you--and I mean that in the best possible way, with zero hidden or sarcastic meaning (which is not always the case with my posts, but my mischief is usually intentionally obvious).

[–]risistill me 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Guess I'll have to continue not posting on social media.

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    [–]bucetao6969Im a guest here. Do not take my opinion as of a community member 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I would say it's more of only few select voices mattering. Anyone that isn't those voices just stops posting after a while.

    That's not a good or bad thing. It's simply how the system works.

    [–]therazorx👹🧹🥇 The road to truth is often messy. 👹📜🕵️🎖️[S] 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    Excerpt

    Bruening isn't alone. Despite the efforts of big incumbents and buzzy new apps, the old ways of posting are gone, and people don't want to go back. Even Adam Mosseri, the head of Instagram, admitted that users have moved on to direct messages, closed communities, and group chats. Regularly posting content is now largely confined to content creators and influencers, while non-creators are moving toward sharing bits of their lives behind private accounts.

    As more people have been confronted with the consequences of constant sharing, social media has become less social and more media — a constellation of entertainment platforms where users consume content but rarely, if ever, create their own. Influencers, marketers, average users, and even social-media executives agree: Social media, as we once knew it, is dead.

    [snip]

    As posting became higher stakes, new features also pushed users away from the original mission: Instagram began prioritizing video, then livestreaming, and then shopping. Each change muddled the purpose of Instagram even further. Everyday people were still posting to the platform, but more and more of the content became professionalized. Bloggers brought their audience, editing skills, and expensive cameras to the platform. Influencers started to snag brand deals, and fashion bloggers made the platform into a career. Instagram encouraged the rise of influencers with programs that helped creators understand best practices, gave them technical support, and set up discreet payment programs.

    [snip]

    In an era where a lot of frequent social-media users are sick of being "perceived" and having hundreds, or even thousands, of eyes on them, many are retreating to the days of tighter connections and communities.

    "I'm honestly just tired of social media," said 23-year-old Walid Mohammed, who works in the creator economy. "I'm tired of consuming content all the time."

    And if Instagram was the bellwether for the rise and fall of the "social" social-media era, it is also a harbinger of this new era. "If you look at how teens spend their time on Instagram, they spend more time in DMs than they do in stories, and they spend more time in stories than they do in feed," Mosseri said during the "20VC" interview. Given this changing behavior, Mosseri said the platform has shifted its resources to messaging tools. "Actually, at one point a couple years ago, I think I put the entire stories team on messaging," he said.

    Interesting how this is following up the non-related post I shared a few weeks ago "Stop Talking to Each Other and Start Buying Things: Three Decades of Survival in the Desert of Social Media", and more interesting that despite attempts, users still prefer actually talking to each other.

    [–]InumaGaming Socialist 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah, I do text messages and Discord communities while the larger apps I don't do anymore.

    Hard part is always organizing after work when you're dog tired.

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      [–]therazorx👹🧹🥇 The road to truth is often messy. 👹📜🕵️🎖️[S] 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

      Anything Monty Python gets an upvote from me :)