I feel a measure of sympathy for the detransitioners, but it's honestly a small one. Because, based on the well-documented behavior of other trans--threats of suicide if they don't get what they want, blowing up family and friend relationships with people trying to talk them down, and so on--I have to wonder how many of them will steadfastly try to blame everyone around them for not stopping them from wrecking themselves, and spare not a thought for the terrible hardships they inflicted on those people with their incessant drive for validation at any cost.