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[–]Amongstclouds 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I don't judge women for that and I don't know any men who do.

I'd love to live in the world you live in. I wouldn't have to work and no one would judge me for not picking up after a grown man. Your world sounds amaze-balls - or fake. One of those two is true.

Let him learn the hard way then, like you did.

I did that. It cost me $2k. He still won't clean up after himself.

See, I knew it! You don't want equality, you want men worshiping women, exactly like I have been saying this whole time.

Lol, I actually don't. I really just want men to put their trash in the bin and wash the dishes after I cook a healthy dinner. And fucking every man in world acts like this is fucking oppressive. It's not. I just cookd you dinner. Wash your plate, throw the napkin in the trash.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I did that. It cost me $2k. He still won't clean up after himself.

If he expects you to do it all for being a woman that's his own misogyny, not yours or mine.

Lol, I actually don't. I really just want men to put their trash in the bin and wash the dishes after I cook a healthy dinner. And fucking every man in world acts like this is fucking oppressive. It's not. I just cookd you dinner. Wash your plate, throw the napkin in the trash.

I don't think that's oppressive.

[–]Amongstclouds 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Except that my situation is typical. You're arguing it is not and providing a narrative in which it is not. You are literally spreading on an online forum where people can see a false narrative that keeps good women like me in oppressive standards. It's vitally important that I reach people like you and teach them that this is not true. Because the narrative being spread is really bad for me and other women like me - and there are a lot of me. I knew Director of Revenue who retired and when asked what she would do when she retired, she talked about all the house projects that needed doing that she had to do. Her husband didn't work and could've done them but she said "you know how it is when you're a woman - the house projects are never done". Like, she was in her 60s and resigned to it. I don't want my daughter to be there in her 60s. She already thinks she'll be the one working while a husband takes care of her kids. I'd like her to be able to find one who will also wash a dish. So, you need to know that this narrative is wrong and learn the truth. So she can have a good stay at home husband like she wants.

[–]Vulptex[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Tell her not to marry someone like that. But I also think we should raise boys to not marry women who expect them to pay for everything and such, and we are obviously not doing that, and when someone does they're called a misogynist. That's what I mean by "worshiping women". I support womens' liberation. I also support mens' liberation. I don't see why people think they are mutually exclusive.