I’m a liberal but...I’m not attracted to liberal men. "But no matter how much I try to tell myself to stop only viewing masculine men as potential dating/sex partners, I hit a mental block and I get hit with this huge wave of discomfort at the thought of being with a man who’s feminine."

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[–][deleted] 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

They probably mean feminine behavior — but I honestly wouldn't even say that, since liberal women ain't all that feminine. If I had to choose a single word to describe how liberals behave, it would be "animalistic".

What woman would kill her own baby? What father would allow his child to be murdered? No real woman would have an abortion, and no real man would allow it — but animals are savage, they often kill their own babies for little or no reason, and that's exactly how Liberals behave.

[–][deleted] 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (4 children)

They mean they want a manly man, not some limp wristed fop espousing women's studies. Someone who will bend them over and satisfy their cock lust.

Women say they want sensitive, nice guys because they're non threatening, but that type of guy doesn't drench their panties.

[–]Comatoast 7 insightful - 3 fun7 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

All of this is just personal observation and opinion, so take it with a grain of salt:

Eh.. strength, fortitude, the ability to make hard decisions when I can't and can take over when I'm overwhelmed. A feeling of protection, and a desire to protect them too, fierce loyalty.

Muscles are nice, but I mean it's not one of the only things that brings to mind masculinity. There's an aura it carries. Feminine men aren't feminine in the same way that women are, per se, but more the most wretched qualities generally negatively associated with being female, amplified. It's just different, and also kind of gross usually. Like an underlying insidiousness that they'll sacrifice you for whatever suits their will. To be fair, I've always been really put off by fuckhuge beefmuscles with like 4 extra Quad muscles and biceps the size of my waist-- but that's not really masculinity, more obsession with a challenge or some flavor of extreme narcissism.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

You want someone to be there for you when you need someone to be there for you. A partner. You and them against all the challenges and obstacles in life you encounter. Someone who will pick you up if you fall.

[–]Comatoast 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

There's inherent masculinity in the features that I described though, it's very much not the same as support and dynamic there has been with women (for me). Not to say that they can't be those things, but it's just extremely different.

[–]JasonCarswell 1 insightful - 2 fun1 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You sound like:
Discussing Masculinity with Shadiversity (1:35:20) ~ Akkad Daily
https://saidit.net/s/mensrights/comments/7hgz/discussing_masculinity_with_shadiversity_13520/