What was your worst date experience?

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[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 8 fun11 insightful - 7 fun12 insightful - 8 fun -  (18 children)

I went out to a bar that had a lesbian night, and the only way a guy could come in is if he was also gay, and with two women. They just wanted to make sure women could get in because it was a really popular, small place.

My date and I were in line and there were these two gay men who realized they wouldn’t be able to get in for their friend’s bday because they all forgot it was lesbian night, so I offered to bring one of them in with us, and his partner went with another couple of lesbians.

Anyway, my date was super angry with me once we got in and was like “I can’t believe we brought a MAN in, I didn’t know you liked MEN that much!” and was being a real frosty bitch for at least an hour. I had my friend call me and pretend her house was on fire so I could leave early. Lol.

I did not go on a second date with that crazy woman. She was a level 10 man-hater. It was hilarious.

[–]Jaded 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

God forbid lesbians look out for their fellow homosexuals! Sounds like she has some internalized issues around being left for men, which admittedly sucks but that's no reason to take it out on you

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, it was so uncool, and she was SO HOT and suddenly became SO NOT. No wonder someone left her if she was like that. I’ve not met anyone quite so much of a hater since.

[–]fieryoyster[S] 7 insightful - 5 fun7 insightful - 4 fun8 insightful - 5 fun -  (9 children)

Yeah you’re just not a lesbian if you like male company apparently 😂

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

No gay men allowed in the club! Lol. They were the sweetest guys too. She was really outrageously man-hating. Like, girl, these are our brothers, they made a mistake on the night, their lesbian friend is waiting for them. It’s FINE. She was not fine

[–]Dykexmachina 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I don't understand lesbians that don't like gay men. I've never met a gay guy I haven't liked. I have my feminist views but they're based on reason. You have to know how to navigate life without blowing up at inconsequential bs lol.

[–]just_lesbian_things 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Dislike is a strong word, but I just don't have anything in common with them, I think. Most of the gay men I've known prefer the company of bihet women or other men. In the few mixed spaces I've been in, I've gotten the general impression that gay men didn't like lesbians very much. Not genuine hatred or anything, but I get the sense they preferred if the club was full of gay men instead, and that we were raining on their parade, so to speak. I also personally dislike lesbians who bring men, regardless of their sexual orientation, into lesbian only spaces. I wouldn't be so put off as to voice my opinion, but I definitely wouldn't be thrilled about it. Men have spaces everywhere; leave the guy at the door.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I’ve met a few I didn’t like, but it was because they were shallow, mean, and fake. Most are sweeties.

[–]SteppenSlut 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

We made the same mistake on New Years. Instead of a lesbian space it was gay men and drag, and we were the only women there. They were all super cool and nice though. We had our picture taken for a magazine then ubered to the regular lesbian bar instead a few blocks away. If anyone was mad at our presence nobody showed it. It was just good ole gay happiness there!

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

We used to share bathrooms in the mixed gay bar in my city, things were not insane like they are now and gay people usually went out of their way to be welcoming to other gays. I had some of the most hilarious chats in BATHROOMS with gay men, some of them became best friends. I think maybe we trusted people to respect the community too much and then let everyone in and now we are getting booted, lol.

It used to be exactly like your experience. Every so often there would be some catty person getting mad, but most people were chill

[–]SteppenSlut 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Dude. That sounds so nice. I bet come next New Years it’s going to be different. I haven’t been to a lesbian or gay bar since then due to covid but I’m sure it’s going to be a lot different. That really sucks.

[–][deleted] 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

The best thing about it was that all of us homos could easily clock the creepy straights and you could look around and see various homos ready to get frosty on them. Lol. Homos loved other homos around, but we got rid of the “tourists” real quick. Lol. Oh man, I miss that

Getting Deb and Steve, the bouncers, to take out the trash. Lol

You will never see a more miserable face in your life than a gay man trapped between a bunch of bridesmaids at the bar having their friend’s bachelorette party. We all HATED THAT SHIT

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    [–][deleted] 8 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    Gay men are hilarious. We get along great because we are all assholes, lol.

    [–]plumedoomer 5 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

    What’d she look like? 👀

    [–][deleted] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Demi Moore with a shaved head. Like gi Jane. She was SUPER SUPER SUPER hot. It was bullshit

    [–]lmaonope333 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    lol. and I thought I was a man hater. who cares. gay men can be sexist but at least they won't hit on me

    [–][deleted] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah, and it was a one-off because everyone they knew that was inside (a group of lesbians celebrating a woman’s bday) forgot it was actually lesbian night. Those guys were not even trying to barge in and they were super conflicted about it.