I think a lot of people don't even notice because it doesn't affect them. Really the only ones being affected by this are lesbians and to a lesser extent gay men - for anyone else, they can go their whole lives without ever encountering the idea of a girldick. I've found though that the few times I've discussed it with others, they seem somewhat incredulous but not in a malicious way. More like they can't understand how anyone could ever expect a lesbian to be into dick and are baffled that it's even an argument. Which is comforting in a way because it makes me realize that the majority of people out there do indeed understand what same-sex attraction is, but I also wish it would be taken more seriously. I think there's this perception that it's just a fringe group of weirdos who perpetuate this stuff, but nowadays that's really not true and gay people are genuinely losing spaces and voices.