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[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'm not taking it because I am not at high risk. I've had sex with the same one person for 10+ years.

On the other hand, some people are suggesting that I might be at risk simply because, as a gay man, I may have brushed by another gay man who happens to have MP ("it's not sexually transmitted"). This is not the pro-gay message that some people seem to think it is: it will only make gay men pariahs if casual contact with someone perceived to be high risk is understood as a transmission factor.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I’m 27 and I’m a virgin. I’ve turned down hookups. Im saving up for when I meet a man I can trust.

My parents think you can get Monkeypox by touching the blisters on someone who has it. But they think it’s a myth that gays are the worst spreaders of it, and condemn it as a homophobic myth. They believe straight people are at just as much risk of spreading it.

Nevertheless, I do think that Monkeypox isn’t as scary as the media and the government are making it out to be. It’s no big deal, and it’s easy to avoid if you’re monogamous or celibate. The media and the government want people scared. People who are scared are easier to control, easier to manipulate. This was clearly demonstrated over the last two years with lockdowns and mask mandates, with scared people yelling and screaming at people for "not obeying the rules" and cutting off ties with friends and family for not being scared of Covid. Fear makes you stupid. That same fear has been used to spread homophobia and manipulate the general public into making life hell for gay men. This can happen again with Monkeypox.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I’m 27 and I’m a virgin. I’ve turned down hookups. Im saving up for when I meet a man I can trust.

Good for you: it's better to wait for the right one. Even if your first bf doesn't end up being the one you're with forever, in the long run you are more likely to attract higher-quality relationships with a monogamous mindset.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It used to bother me, but now it doesn’t anymore. What has held me back was the fact that the gay scene in my country is confined to Dublin (too expensive to live there) and my social awkwardness. Though I have become more sociable lately.