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[–]reluctant_commenter[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I know that it's possible and not terribly uncommon for some gay person in denial to enter a heterosexual relationship, get married, and even have kids before waking up and realizing they're gay. But that usually involves leaving the heterosexual relationship. If your husband puts on a dress and grows his hair out and you maintain feelings of sexual attraction to him despite that, you're still straight.

Honestly... there's more awareness of "transbians" these days than there is of real lesbians. Maybe they literally don't know what a lesbian is. Stonewall and HRC and media outlets keep claiming men represent lesbians, so maybe some people really ARE confused.