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[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Yeah, even aside from this sub going private (thus depriving us of contributions from any members who haven't been invited back), the... contretemps of two weeks ago really unnerved me, I guess. Took a while to feel like writing anything here again. Dunno if anyone else has had a similar reaction?

[–]CancelPowerSuper Bi Male[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Same feeling. I have been completely absent for more than a week because I didn't feel like I belong here anymore after the recent drama and even considered quitting because I had my own issues with this place, I then took a quick visit only to see that there are barely any new posts or comments here anymore.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah? Guess I'm not the only one, huh? I also had (have) a hard time with the whole voting-for-and-against-people thing; makes me scared of being unfair to someone... either by forgetting them, or wrongly going thumbs-down. Yet I know it's necessary to do my part there. So I resolve the conflict in my accustomed manner: by running away! (We're not exactly talking Profiles in Courage here.)

I'm hoping that this place will rebound sometime soon... and that you'll wanna stick around, Cancel. Especially since I know what it's like, feeling you don't belong... and it'd be nice if we could help each other stop feeling that way.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, same. I had a few big post projects I was going to embark on but put that energy into vetting people and other related activities instead.