Indoctrination / DoublethinkTired of the older lesbians and lesbians in LT relationships caping for male predators in our spaces!

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[–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A lesbian posted about her experiences with a transbian predator and ofc the comments are full of women caping for "not all transwomen" and "transbians are still valid and 10000% lesbians (but ummm I'm in a committed relationship and would never do dick! Go harass those other lesbians!!)"

I AM SO FUCKING TIRED OF THESE LESBIANS WHO ARE WILLING TO THROW YOUNGER, MORE INEXPERIENCED LESBIANS TO THE FUCKING WOLVES!

If you wouldn't suck a dick, why tf would you expect another lesbian to?? I'm at the point where I just wanna reply, telling them to examine their genital preferences and stop being transphobic too. If you're not willing to open your legs and relationship to validate those poor oppressed transbians, then you have no room to push this nonsense on other lesbians.

What happened to the strong, take no shit lesbians who fought for gay rights?? Why is our community so fucking weak and willing to throw other women to the wolves :((( I'm starting to think we'll never have a lesbian community again, it seems like no one is willing to stand up and fight for our right to exist apart from men...

[–]ZveroboyAlinaclownfish is a clown or a fish? || Febfem 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That space is full of men and "Be nice queers", so those comments can be written by them.

Thought if speaking about lesbians specifically, I've noticed that main TRA enablers are in three groups - first is older already married lesbians, whom this is not affecting at all, second is young teen lesbians from local "queer communities", and third group is ones who were abused by transwoman, and it is their way to cope as to "normalize it, so it is norm and abuse wasn't something bad". The rest of lesbians are in general either neutral or very negative on this topic.

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That poor girl (OP) really needs true lesbians. I wish the sub here was more active, but lots of users bailed to Ovarit.

I'm gonna try messaging her and inviting her to our subs anyway. At least let her know that another perspective exists, and the other perspective isn't calling her crazy or harmful or wrong, for whenever she's ready.

[–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That's such a good idea!! I sent her an Ovarit invite code too :)

I have quite a few so if any of the lesbians here wanna code, hmu 🙌🏾

[–]hufflepuff-poet[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

[–]carescarebear 1 point 7 hours ago I have literally never seen attraction to masculinity especially “pushed” on anyone in lesbian or other wlw spaces, and I’m a 40 fucking year old cis woman with gay parents, so I have been around in queer spaces irl and online for a while. (There have always been stridently political lesbians and other somewhat crazy people who insist sex and romance are political statements, or that there’s only one correct way to be a lesbian, but I’ve never seen them push masculinity — just rejection of men and, often, masculinity.) and while there are always crazy people who are the outliers in any population (plenty of toxic cis lesbians, if you want to go that route), it’s deeply manipulative to claim that outliers represent anyone but their own crazy selves. And what I have seen a lot of is people freaking out about trans women just existing in queer spaces, and then freaking out even more when their freaking out is rightly identified as transphobic and falling back on the victimization tactic of claiming they’re being forced to date people they aren’t attracted to. No, they’re fucking not. Believe me, no one wants to date someone who isn’t attracted to them. These people just don’t like being called out on transphobia, because it’s uncomfortable and makes them feel bad, so they find a way to play the victim instead.

The comment that set me off 🙄😒 Hope she has fun sucking ladydique 🤢

Transbians mere existence in lesbian spaces is the problem!!! Males don't belong in lesbian spaces!! WE DON'T WANT THEM OR THEIR "LADYDIQUES"!!!

Literally victim blaming women for having boundaries, and enabling these men in their predatory pursuits!

LOL also ofc I got banned from the sub for Transphobia and wrongthink 😒

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Is there even any indication she’s not a straight woman dictating to lesbians?

[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Also "no one wants to date someone who isn't attracted to them" is patently false. It sounds correct on the surface, because what crazy idiot would date someone that isn't attracted to them? Turns out that narcissist fetishists not only will, but specifically will search out people that aren't attracted to them to guilt into dating them because they get off on the power play.