[–]carescarebear 1 point 7 hours ago I have literally never seen attraction to masculinity especially “pushed” on anyone in lesbian or other wlw spaces, and I’m a 40 fucking year old cis woman with gay parents, so I have been around in queer spaces irl and online for a while. (There have always been stridently political lesbians and other somewhat crazy people who insist sex and romance are political statements, or that there’s only one correct way to be a lesbian, but I’ve never seen them push masculinity — just rejection of men and, often, masculinity.) and while there are always crazy people who are the outliers in any population (plenty of toxic cis lesbians, if you want to go that route), it’s deeply manipulative to claim that outliers represent anyone but their own crazy selves. And what I have seen a lot of is people freaking out about trans women just existing in queer spaces, and then freaking out even more when their freaking out is rightly identified as transphobic and falling back on the victimization tactic of claiming they’re being forced to date people they aren’t attracted to. No, they’re fucking not. Believe me, no one wants to date someone who isn’t attracted to them. These people just don’t like being called out on transphobia, because it’s uncomfortable and makes them feel bad, so they find a way to play the victim instead.

The comment that set me off 🙄😒 Hope she has fun sucking ladydique 🤢

Transbians mere existence in lesbian spaces is the problem!!! Males don't belong in lesbian spaces!! WE DON'T WANT THEM OR THEIR "LADYDIQUES"!!!

Literally victim blaming women for having boundaries, and enabling these men in their predatory pursuits!

LOL also ofc I got banned from the sub for Transphobia and wrongthink 😒