My god. How terrifying for your friend. It's good she has you to confide in. And your fiancée is based. I would be thrilled to receive that message, and it's sad that lesbian dating has come to that.

I used the singular in my previous comment because I was referring to a particularly impactftul recent occurrence that really freaked me out. That same person liked my profile on another dating app a few days later and had an even creepier profile (including a gif of himself dancing suggestively in a thong while flashing his bare ass and covered groin). But I've seen it waaay too many times to count. Including today. I am very picky about who I'll meet in person, and I research people extensively before I even consider interacting with them. So I thankfully have not been successfully catfished. They also tend to disqualify themselves with really off-putting profiles. Overwhelmingly hyper-sexualized and male gazey. Even the less porny ones are just off.