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[–]hufflepuff-poet 23 insightful - 6 fun23 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 6 fun -  (1 child)

So I recently downloaded some dating apps to get back in the game. I finally feel ready to meet someone a year after starting my transition. But holy shit these men are so boring. I have a full profile with my intrests listed, different questions or prompts, and that I am looking for a serious relationship. Despite that the only messages I get are ten different variations of "hey". Now, if I'm intrested in them I will respond to ask them a question, but I am confused as to why they seem to put in such a low amount of effort. I am quite baffled since I mostly recieved at least a full sentence when I was dating pre-transition. Are they just looking for sex, is that why? Or is this a common pattern in gay dating? Please help me.

Men courting women act differently than men courting other men?! Whodda thunk it 😱

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 7 insightful - 4 fun7 insightful - 3 fun8 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

its like, science