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[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Being reminded that cis people by and large find trans people undesirable and see us as our AGAB is actively harming trans people here

TRANS people by and large find trans people undesirable! And the main reason for that? Not that they see each other as their "AGAB" (cuz that ain't a thing)-- rather, they don't see their fellow trans people in terms of "gender" at all. They see them as their sex. The way that we do. And, for that matter, the way they see the rest of us. Because that's how all animal species using sexual reproduction are wired. Which explains why "transbians" are notorious for their sexual disinterest in each other, and "gay transmen" likewise.

So we're ALL unattracted to trans people! Hey-- we have something in common after all! Maybe getting in a circle, holding hands, and singing "no trans in my dating pool, thanks!" can be our version of Kumbaya?