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[–][deleted] 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Also, it's just flat out lies.

they come at you with a list of reasons why you'll never be as good as a cis person

WE'RE NOT SAYING ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR VALUE. We just said no. Every person can do that, we're all allowed to have boundaries.

They're the ones pressing for specific details, and then judging us and themselves based on those reasons. It's very immature and short-sighted.

[–]Q-Continuum-kin 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If your entire sense of self is based on being "validated" by way of getting people who aren't sexually attracted to you to declare their desire to fuck you, then being told no negates their entire sense of self.