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[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I'd like to see what that 18-year-old gay man would say after actually having sex with a trans man.

I've seen trans men that I think are surface level attractive, because they are hyper-masculine and I am attracted to masculinity. When I find out they have a vagina between their legs, I can still find them surface level attractive but I don't want to have sex with them anymore, because I am a gay man and have no interest in putting my dick in a vagina.

The fact that there are people out there that actively attempt to look like the other sex in an elaborate form of deception doesn't mean that I have to have sex with (or even enter a long-term relationship with) them if I thought they were cute before I realized that they were actually women, similar to the fact that I am not obligated to enter a relationship with some actual man that I think is hot and then I find out that we have nothing in common and he's actually a terrible person.

Congratulations, young gay! You've been deceived by women who believe that they are men, and found yourself surface level attracted to them. That doesn't make you a good person.

[–]Dromedary 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I utterly disbelieve that this was written by a gay man, it overwhelmingly sounds like it was written by an AFAB trans man (aka a female). Such a long comment is the first tipoff. And oh, complaining about gay men? Where have we ever seen that before, gosh. All this flowery drivel about dates and flowers and holding hands - I mean, please. A woman larping as a gay man wrote this. No gay dude is going to refer to his own dick sneeringly and dismissively as a mere "piece of flesh". We actually quite like our dicks and at 18 we're pretty horny. Something that's absent from this. Like a lot of young women deluded into thinking they're not women, there's a fear of sex (which is fine) but boy, do they talk about it a lot. I mean, WHAT a lecture this 18 year old gave us about ALL the sexualities like an expert. Comical. Typical.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I looked into his posting history and it's boy. I say boy because he seems like one of those sweet and sheltered kids with music instruments and who goes on trips with the parents.

He's a romantic virgin boy who probably has never seen a vagina up close. He's not out to himself for that long. He probably still has some stuff to work through by realising he's gay.

[–]Dromedary 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I see. Not a gay man then, ha. A boy as you say. I dunno, he sounds like he's brainwashed from being constantly online and absorbing a lot of "lessons" from the gendergoblin bluehair teenz how he should be. Sad really.