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[–]hufflepuff-poet 36 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 3 fun37 insightful - 4 fun -  (3 children)

So many people coming out as "q*eer", wtf does that even mean?! Are you coming out as same-sex attracted, bisexual, asexual, trans, or just extra special spicy straight?! I'm so tired of this slur being used as a blanket term for LGB and TQ+, it's useless.

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    [–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    Also, what's the point of coming out as bisexual when the default attitude is that there's no such thing? You take the risk... and nobody believes you. If you're a woman, it's understood as really meaning, "straight, just slutty and/or pretentious"; if you're a man, "gay, just cowardly". And either way, you're a phony. So it's all downside. Then why even bother? Which goes for most bisexuals, famous or otherwise.