I completely believe you. Like I said, I've heard people say that myself and it's so fucking dumb! It frustrates me, too, I grew up being told by homophobic straight women that "all lesbians look masculine, have short hair, and wear men's clothes" and that's one layer of denial, and then on top of that we've got idiots in the TQ+ movement saying that a lesbian woman should look like that, too. I honestly think straight people, and society at large, probably way overexaggerates the number of lesbian women who are very GNC relative to the rest of us who are only somewhat GNC or aren't at all.