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[–]hufflepuff-poet 29 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 0 fun30 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Sexual orientation isn't a "lifestyle choice or aesthetic". These people are homophobic and stupid af.

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Okay what is the aesthetic that all lesbians globally share? Is there one for gay people, bi people lol.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Short hair, flannel and long short, of course.

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

You joke, but I've heard people suggest this seriously before. Drives me up the wall.

[–]Mermer 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

This might be controversial but what the hell.

This is why I don't get the hostility towards straight girls. Who cares if they want to expirement or kiss a girl at a party for fun? You know what you're getting into with them and it's your choice weather you want to participate in it or not.

What they don't do, is appropriate labels and communities they don't belong in. At least from my experience, they say they're straight and acknowledge the fact they don't want to get with a girl for real instead of calling themselves bi because it's the "right" thing to identify as, other wise you're not open minded and honest with yourself bcs "everyone is gay". No they're not.

[–]Athelhilda4Questioning 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Honestly, if they want to experiment sexually with another woman, they probably aren't as straight as they think they are.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

This is the dumb mentality that creates fake bi's. Its normal to be more adventous and open to new experiences when young, doesn't mean much.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 8 insightful - 5 fun8 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

Being a medical doctor is an aesthetic imo. I have literally no medical education or background, but I identify with doctors and will continue to identify one, even if you show a dictionary definition or certificate requirements to practice medicine. No one can stop me

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 1 insightful - 3 fun1 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

Your're VALID

[–]chazzstrong 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They aren't stupid, they are malicious.
Don't underestimate their desire to see you subdued. Uncomfortable truth time: they are enemies, not wayward allies.