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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I have never heard of liberals being angry that gay men come out late in their lives, to be honest. I was 18 when I came out to my mam, 19 when I came out to my sister, and 20 when I came out to my dad, my brother and later everybody else. Well, to be more precise, those were the ages when I stopped hiding my orientation. I don’t tell people I’m gay unless they ask, because now I don’t think it’s that important. There should not be a deadline to come out, just take it easy.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

don’t tell people I’m gay unless they ask, because now I don’t think it’s that important.

Yeah, that's how I go about it too. Thank you :) I'm actually out to quite a few people (not everyone because I don't mention it in all contexts), but I appreciate the encouragement!