Doesn't it also seem like Gaydens (I hope that's not a banned slur here?) have this cartoon image of gay men having uncontrollable urges, so that these women think a bath house guarantees they will get laid by a gay man? Like they imagine all gay men are just banging away in any hole that walks in the door, so these women can validate their fetish easily here?

I'm not a gay man, but I would imagine many men go to these places and get ignored and go home lonely. [And I doubt they go home and spend the rest of the night on Twitter posting attacks on "cisgay men who wouldn't bang me" !]

I feel the only solution is private clubs -- and I am not sure they will be deemed legal? I am not sure how much anonymity men prefer in these places (?) but I think all of us are going to need to use membership to exclude the TQ. At FIRST it might seem like there are too few customers, but as word spreads that this venue is exclusively gay men, or exclusively lesbian, or SUPER bi, I think it would have a HUGE customer base.

THEN the lawsuits would start against "TQ-exclusionary" places, especially as these unwell people now have legal paperwork saying (read: lying) that they are the opposite sex.

Same-sex attracted should NOT be synonymous with ENABLER.