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[–]julesburm1891 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

My experience with trans people in real life and online is that they’re all “grass is greener on the other side” people. They think all their problems would go away if they were the opposite sex. This attitude seems to bleed over in other aspects of their lives as well. “Oh everything would be so perfect if I lived in the UK!” “None of my issues would exist if I lived in a blue state instead of a red one!” “Everything would be great if I had a boyfriend or girlfriend!”

Idealizing anything and setting it up as one big solution is guaranteed disappointment.