METAWhy Do You Want To "Drop The T"?

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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

socially aggressive

Funny how all of this enabling and abuse can be summed up so neatly. The perpetrator who claims victimhood always distracts people with that red herring at least for a minute. The ones who don't snap out of it turn into aggressors themselves.

I am reading through all of this and hope to catch up at some point, but in the meantime, hey, if you have 10 minutes a day...big things are built one step at a time. I will definitely dig up some of my collected links and hand them off for further consideration when I have some more brain space.

A section about legal cases would be good to add.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

socially aggressive

Funny how all of this enabling and abuse can be summed up so neatly. The perpetrator who claims victimhood always distracts people with that red herring at least for a minute. The ones who don't snap out of it turn into aggressors themselves.

Yes, exactly, that does distract people. I find this pattern really hard to talk about, to put into words... it feels like walking through fog sometimes.

but in the meantime, hey, if you have 10 minutes a day...big things are built one step at a time.

You're completely right. :) Unfortunately I have obviously not done that the past few weeks, hahaha. Maybe even just 5min a day would be a good start.

A section about legal cases would be good to add.

Good idea!