Indoctrination / DoublethinkSex is not about sex anymore

submitted by Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care from (i.imgur.com)

all 31 comments
sorted by:
top
newinsightfulfun

[–][deleted] 48 insightful - 30 fun48 insightful - 29 fun49 insightful - 30 fun -  (2 children)

Clearly the best sex is when you have to actively avoid your partner's genitals out of disgust.

[–]GayBoner 27 insightful - 27 fun27 insightful - 26 fun28 insightful - 27 fun -  (1 child)

Hot!!! 🔥🔥🔥

[–]reluctant_commenter 19 insightful - 15 fun19 insightful - 14 fun20 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

I feel like this comment is made even better by your username.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 45 insightful - 5 fun45 insightful - 4 fun46 insightful - 5 fun -  (13 children)

Let's see what we got here:

  • A guy who was gaslighted to such a point he forced himself to have sex with a FtM only to fail spectacularly at it.

  • A MtF employing cope in order to cope with the fact hormones have destroyed his ability to have an erection.

  • Also, a nice portrayal of T4T cope relationships: people who due to a lack of options force themselves, and fail, to fuck people who they're not attracted to.

Also, notice the amount of times I used 'cope' in this post.

[–]reluctant_commenter 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A MtF employing cope in order to cope with the fact hormones have destroyed his ability to have an erection.

Yeah I was about to say, that is a major glaring fact that he left leave out!

Also, a nice portrayal of T4T cope relationships: people who due to a lack of options force themselves, and fail, to fuck people who they're not attracted to.

Honestly it's really sad. Like I'm not saying it un-does the harm that many of these people cause with their ideological nonsense. But it's just such a messed up thing to do to yourself. I forced myself to try to date men because I didn't want to be gay when I was younger, and it still makes me feel sick thinking about it.

This horrible ideology is going to leave so many people with emotional and sexual trauma.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

That's the purpose of testosterone blockers. To chemically castrate them. They can't get erection, ejeculate and their dick gets smaller. That's why they say their dick is differen than normal dick. Technically it is different.

[–]insta 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A guy who was gaslighted to such a point he forced himself to have sex with a FtM only to fail spectacularly at it.

Eh, that’s a little sympathetic. I think we’ve all been there when we’ve liked a person for their personality or something but just felt zero physical attraction. You try to make it work but it’s just not there.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But that's called a close friendship.

A lot of gay men have friendships with women and other gay men, this doesn't mean they need to fuck them.

Seriously, I have been noticing a strange conflation of romantic, sexual and platonic relationships coming from 'queer' pundits.

It's quite strange, to say the least.

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 17 insightful - 16 fun17 insightful - 15 fun18 insightful - 16 fun -  (3 children)

When me and my partner have sex, we sit down in the living room fully clothed and stare at each other or find a nice book to read.

[–]IridescentAnacondastrictly dickly 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

My husband and I do still have real sex, but our favorite time together is reading in bed. We old??

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

libido drop with age. Its good thing.

[–]RippoffOfLoveSStraight | Overuses quotation marks 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with that! But it's not sex.

[–]GreykittymommaMagical lady 💜 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Let's just rub our flaccid penises together until we don't cum all over. That's my idea of a good time!

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 9 insightful - 6 fun9 insightful - 5 fun10 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

Pansexuality for everyone! Yay!!

[–]ThrowMeAway2879 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

What is the MTF trying to say here? "It's fine if he isn't into it! Just fuck him anyway!"

And, unless there's health issues, I'd be very concerned if the people I had sex with "rarely" get hard.

[–]hellonumpty 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Being pansexual sounds shite tbh.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

So is being pansexual basicly having sex with people you're not into because...?

What's the point?!

[–]SerpensInferna 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A part of me finds this hysterical, but honestly, what sad tragic twisted lives they lead.

[–]censorshipment 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

This reminds me of women who don't get wet (either not at all, not enough or not quickly enough) and need lube. To me, that is a sign of lack of arousal and means a woman isn't into the person she's sexually involved with.

Of course since so many women are on meds with awful side effects... such as my girlfriend who takes anti-depressants... this can be challenging.

I get very wet as soon as I start thinking about sex... I don't need foreplay nor physical touch in order for my pussy to begin lubrication. This was so shocking to my late bloomer girlfriend, who has always needed lube with her male partners (mainly her husband of 15+ years who fucked her without lube and caused a lot of sexual trauma)... she thought it was normal to not get wet and to have painful sex.

Anyway, my point is... these people need to talk to their doctors and be honest about what's going on instead of being discreet about their sex lives. I talked to my doctor and therapist about my first relationship (w/ a girl) when I was 14. That's why I've never been self-conscious about the puddle of pussy juice that develops when I'm aroused. Plus, my brain is protecting me from possible sexual trauma (painful penetration) due to my fear of being assaulted (I've never been raped, but my radfem mom told me men would try to rape me throughout my life, and she was right. There have been several attempts)... being super wet would make rape hurt less physically.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Anyway, my point is... these people need to talk to their doctors and be honest about what's going on instead of being discreet about their sex lives.

The answer to what's happening is simple: the hormone fuckery is taking it's toll.

In males it impairs erectile function, while it makes females go completely dry.

It's not rare to see people losing sexual function due to HRT.

[–]TiredTrendersSuper-gay 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Clearly, sex is now only about coddling the TQ+ crowd. Validating their decisions to inject themselves with hormones and, undergo surgeries that are both damaging and irreversible. Anyone who thinks otherwise is a bigot. 😌 /end sarcasm