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[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 45 insightful - 5 fun45 insightful - 4 fun46 insightful - 5 fun -  (13 children)

Let's see what we got here:

  • A guy who was gaslighted to such a point he forced himself to have sex with a FtM only to fail spectacularly at it.

  • A MtF employing cope in order to cope with the fact hormones have destroyed his ability to have an erection.

  • Also, a nice portrayal of T4T cope relationships: people who due to a lack of options force themselves, and fail, to fuck people who they're not attracted to.

Also, notice the amount of times I used 'cope' in this post.

[–]reluctant_commenter 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

A MtF employing cope in order to cope with the fact hormones have destroyed his ability to have an erection.

Yeah I was about to say, that is a major glaring fact that he left leave out!

Also, a nice portrayal of T4T cope relationships: people who due to a lack of options force themselves, and fail, to fuck people who they're not attracted to.

Honestly it's really sad. Like I'm not saying it un-does the harm that many of these people cause with their ideological nonsense. But it's just such a messed up thing to do to yourself. I forced myself to try to date men because I didn't want to be gay when I was younger, and it still makes me feel sick thinking about it.

This horrible ideology is going to leave so many people with emotional and sexual trauma.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

That's the purpose of testosterone blockers. To chemically castrate them. They can't get erection, ejeculate and their dick gets smaller. That's why they say their dick is differen than normal dick. Technically it is different.

[–]insta 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

A guy who was gaslighted to such a point he forced himself to have sex with a FtM only to fail spectacularly at it.

Eh, that’s a little sympathetic. I think we’ve all been there when we’ve liked a person for their personality or something but just felt zero physical attraction. You try to make it work but it’s just not there.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care[S] 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But that's called a close friendship.

A lot of gay men have friendships with women and other gay men, this doesn't mean they need to fuck them.

Seriously, I have been noticing a strange conflation of romantic, sexual and platonic relationships coming from 'queer' pundits.

It's quite strange, to say the least.