LifestyleNot knowing if you can continue living in a world of Gender Woo as a Gender Critical person?

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[–]Destresse🇨🇵 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

The world has wronged you. I don't know what else to say... I am part of those people who fight injustice and unfairness with pettiness and anger. It makes me angry. Why in the world should you be the one caving and disappearing when the world finds you unsightly? No one's entitled to your life. There are other angry unsightly people who you definitely belong with.

You know, I read this while sitting next to the water on a forest path with my dog sniffing grass behind me. And I thought about how far away and alone we all are, us "transphobic" LGB. How unfair is that? We're being isolated for daring to assert our right to, hah, how ironic, exist. The thing trans people constantly complain about. "OuR rIgHt tO eXiSt." Between us and them, we all know who are the ones living authentically. Are you going to give up existing? Are you going to let them have that win over you? Okay, that's a bit provocative and I sound like a sports coach lol. But, you have options, and disappearing is just what those deranged people want. People like you are on the front lines to be honest, so I can't imagine what it must be like for you. But if you go down, it's going to hit moral pretty damn hard. The fact you're still standing is inspiring hope in and of itself.

Here are some thoughts: You mentioned two other male youtubers who do gender critical stuff, why not come in contact with them and ask for a collab/an interview/I don't know what else? I've seen quite a lot of youtubers become fast friends when their share content and stuff, maybe it can help with the loneliness a bit.

Is there an LGB alliance where you're from, or any kind of gender critical LGB org? You could either volunteer to work with them (and make new nice colleagues) or they could help get you in contact with other gender critical LGBs in your area. With any luck there might gay men in the lot. In any case, it could be a good idea to get info on this front.

Also we'll have an LGB sub without all the TQ bull soon, so it'll be easier to connect in a more light-hearted way. There might be people on here who live close by too. I remember the recurrent "anyone living in X?" posts on r/truelesbians lol.

I've tried to write this as well as I could and I still feel like a failure. Comforting people is hard when you don't know them, so I'm deciding to publish this in a "hit or miss" state of mind.

I hope you will feel better soon.

[–]Kai_Decadence[S] 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for your perspective and advice. Admittedly I was in a pretty down mood when I wrote this post because I had been feeling this way ever since my last and only friend of my small few friends who dumped me when I released my video that pretty much confirmed I'm a GC gay man and how even before then when I tried to come out to some of these friends in private letting them know, how quickly they all just dropped me without even bothering to listen to why I had my views. So a few weeks ago when I told my last friend about my views because they didn't watch my video, she said that she was okay with it but then immediately stopped talking with me since then and it just really messed with my head because she was the last person I had who I considered a friend and now it's just completely silence. I'm feeling a lot better now though.

But yeah I get that not having people stand up prominently against this trans nonsense can make the fight difficult. We already felt that impact when we lost Magdalen Berns who was a force to be reckoned with and her courage was truly amazing but I will admit that sometimes it can be a little overwhelming with how brainwashed people are and having to hear how "transphobic" you are by pretty much everyone and it just makes me want to throw my hands up because these people are so full of it. They try to challenge your views and you take them up to bat and you counter and address every possible angle they try to throw at you and at the end of it, they still think they've won by calling you a "tRaNsPhObE" when they don't have any other arguments to throw at you.

Here are some thoughts: You mentioned two other male youtubers who do gender critical stuff, why not come in contact with them and ask for a collab/an interview/I don't know what else? I've seen quite a lot of youtubers become fast friends when their share content and stuff, maybe it can help with the loneliness a bit.

I'm definitely thinking of trying this when I get my Gay GC channel off the ground. I wanna try and wait till I have a few videos out that further explain my GC views as a gay man because so far I've only got one and it didn't really go into explicit detail about why I don't believe in transgenderism. But yeah once I do this, I'm gonna try to contact these gay male channels.

Is there an LGB alliance where you're from, or any kind of gender critical LGB org?

Unfortunately no, not locally at least. I did look up this one gay group that was in my city and it seemed promising but when I went to their FaceBook page and scrolled through some of the posts, I saw the "TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS" posts in there and I was like "Nope...". That was the only active group that I saw in the city. I would try and start my own group but with how brainwashed so many people are, I don't think it would do well and I'd probably get made a target of people trying to get me to lose my job and I just don't want to deal with that right now you know?

Nonetheless, thank you for sharing your perspective, it definitely helped!