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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They ask so that they put you in a position where you have to either confirm that they can join or you have to say no, which will prompt the subsequent question, why? It's a deliberate tactic to force themselves into these spaces.