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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

At least you don't have to worry if a guy is actually gay when he says he is (unless he's bisexual which is a whole other situation). As a lesbian, it's hard to trust women who say they're lesbians because it could be bicurious women who want to experiment or straight women calling themselves "political lesbians".

[–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

It also doesn't help that other people will call any SSA woman a lesbian. 2 friends of mine tried to get me to admit I was a lesbian when they know I like dick. Between them, the LARPers, and the political lesbians it's like there aren't any real ones left.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is very true. I see this happen as well with bisexual women. And with me, many people don't see being a lesbian as immediately opposed to dick. Is very bizarre.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This, I wish this wasn't true but this is the harsh reality nowadays 😬😬