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[–]chandra 27 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 0 fun28 insightful - 1 fun -  (19 children)

People are attracted to people, not body parts

If this was true, you wouldn't need to keep reminding everyone.

Also, as is so often the case, the person making the completely outlandish 'logical' argument about how human sexuality should be has 'autistic' in his bio, explaining everything.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah[S] 20 insightful - 7 fun20 insightful - 6 fun21 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

It's hard to believe any of us were able to make it through life before people with "autism" got onto the internet to show us.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Just popping in to say there's a high likelihood that they're self-diagnosers and very likely just socially awkward people (but it's not pervasive enough to impact daily life) or someone looking for oppression points.

[–]chandra 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yes, I'm too quick to jump to the conclusion that someone who argues against 'genital preferences' is suffering from some sort of social disorder that prevents them from understanding the complexity of human sexuality, when it's equally possible that, being trans, they're simply deeply personally invested in the belief that genitals and sex are completely unrelated.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. I'm not saying autistic people can't convince themselves they're trans (they're often GNC like myself because they don't have a feel for gender expectations/norms or don't understand why X can't do Y, and therefore are told they're trans by peers, online communities, parents and doctors), but it's more likely that most trans aren't also autistic as many claim to be.

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (12 children)

straight guys talk about T&A, everyone talks about somones ass, or their amazing eyes, etc. Its normal to be attracted to parts.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 15 insightful - 3 fun15 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 3 fun -  (11 children)

I'm always attracted to eyes. And nice slappable ass is always GOAT.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Eyes, smile, hips and butt are my favorite physical features on a woman.

A quirky nose is insanely attractive to me! It's all the parts that make up the whole woman that gets me going, because being attracted to sexual partners is normal and natural.

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Kinda droopy eyes, breasts, thighs and hands for me 🙋‍♀️😂

Female hands are so incredibly beautiful

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 9 insightful - 4 fun9 insightful - 3 fun10 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

droopy eyes? I think downturned eyes kind of turnoffto me. They tend to look sad.

Does it incluse small hand and breasts too? :( LMAO

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, I get why you'd say sad. But to me they are more... wise, or gentle, or something. Lol I don't know

And yeah... I cannot lie... I like big breasts 😂

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"I like big breasts"

I had heard in France small tits were praised because they're more youthful :( lol

[–]hufflepuff-poet 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I love sleepy/droopy eyes! My last serious crush had the sexiest droopy bedroom eyes and half smirk smile 😍🤤

Female hands are beautiful, I don't pay enough attention to them.

[–]Destresse🇨🇵 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

My last serious crush had the sexiest droopy bedroom eyes and half smirk smile

My type exactly 🤣

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 4 insightful - 3 fun4 insightful - 2 fun5 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

If by droopy you mean the ones with very visible eyelids, they're very gentle and sweet. I like it too. I was talking about the type of eyes when the extremities kind point downward.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Kinda droopy eyes

Do you mean what's known as "hooded eyes", maybe? The ones with an extra fold of skin covering the crease in the eyelid? Which often kinda droops? This is part of what gives English actress Charlotte Rampling her distinctive look:

https://iconicimages.net/app/uploads/2017/01/CR010.jpg

https://2.bp.blogspot.com/-4_BXAzO9CYU/UFh2EUtn1vI/AAAAAAAAEio/k5EREgMwdgQ/s400/3.jpg

I always thought that Rampling had especially lovely eyes (and the rest of her is pretty great, too :) ).

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm attracted to bigger noses too. They give character- But depends on the rest. Big nose with weak chin and thin lips just aren't my thing. And apparently I find muscled shoulders attractive. Those deltoids. As long as the figure is slim. Too big is masculine.

[–]DropItLikeItsHot 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, while there's very real problems with how society addresses mental illness, that doesn't mean the solution is to hand the reins and make everyone with mental illnesses our policymakers. There's also a huge issue of self-diagnoses believing their fantasies matter more than the evaluation of trained medical professionals.

[–]reluctant_commenter 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If this was true, you wouldn't need to keep reminding everyone.

Lmao, so simple but that's so true! Wouldn't be any argument if everyone were bisexual, it would just be a universally accepted simple fact.