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[–]pacsatonifil 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Physically it feels great. I’m trying to think of something that’s unisex. Like a back massage it feels good, but now imagine your grandpa giving you one vs your naked girlfriend giving you one. One feels psychologically better. It still feels good, but like if I stuck a dildo it would feel good but if I had sex with a man it would be a whole body experience. It’s another plane of existence. If it didn’t feel good I would not do it even if the man was super hot.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

This is a good analogy. And yes the whole body experience is an important point. Same-sex attraction is a whole body experience. We’re not attracted to singular body parts and personalities in isolation. It’s a package deal. The kind of sex they want us to have sounds weird, disembodied, and disconnected. Like glory holes or something. Sure, some people get off to that but it’s not enough for most people who want the full connection to a person we are attracted to in every way.