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Indoctrination / DoublethinkCatch-22: When you want to have gay sex, but it has to be PiV sex

submitted 2 years ago by ThrowMeAway2879 from reddit.com

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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 23 insightful - 3 fun23 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 2 fun24 insightful - 3 fun - 2 years ago* (3 children)

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He said piv was okay, but it isn't. He lied--to himself and then to you.

Again with the incel thinking. Characterizing a gay/bisexual man who tried to be into vagina or work around it as a "liar" is gross. LGBTQ cultists are always telling us we must be "inclusive," "open-minded," not "gatekeep" (have boundaries), and give trans people a chance and not judge them by their genitals. Now you're a liar if you try sexual activity that you end up not being into. Imagine if it was a male OP writing about his girlfriend saying she would be willing to try [insert sex act] and then realizing she doesn't like it. Probably wouldn't elicit the same comment.

On the flipside, this also does go with what I've said before, which is that there is a market out there for bisexual or straight men to lie about being gay in order to have anal and other kinds of sex with women who want to be validated as trans men. These are weird times we're living in.

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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun - 2 years ago (1 child)

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