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[–]Horror-SwordfishI don't get how flairs work 18 insightful - 5 fun18 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

If 'mspec lesbian' isn't a thing then lesbians are exclusively monosexual.

So then 'mspec lesbian' must not be a thing, because lesbians are indeed monosexual. Glad we could clear that up.

If you believe that, but believe lesbians can be attracted to any "non-men",

I believe that lesbians are monosexual and attracted to women, not "non-men."

then you're misgendering many nonbinary people.

Heavens no! However shall I go on?

[–]PatsyStoneMaverique 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

The fuck is tw//mspec supposed to be? Why do these people always talk in tortured acronyms? Nice mention of the Apple Oranges because they're relevant here too I guess?

The reply seems to be saying that you can't call lesbians monosexual because of how many lesbians identify as non-binary (which is true) and monosexuality would imply that they are (gasp!) women.

[–]theytookourjerbsXX only.[S] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I really have no damn idea what mspec is , and I don't want to bother

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 9 insightful - 3 fun9 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

What does this mean? Like what is the conflict/what are they upset about?

Lmao

Eta- nvm I understand now, what a waste of effort lol

[–]loveSloaneSuperDuperBi 11 insightful - 4 fun11 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Apparently, mspec means “multisexual spectrum”

So….

Bisexual.

[–]DropItLikeItsHot 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

More like exhausting if you ask me.

[–]Bright_paintingLoad, lesbian biologist 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Has anyone else noticed this? When they talk about us (actual women and lesbians) we are "non-men", but when a man decides to transition, he is not becoming a "non-man". He is ALWAYS a woman, or in some fucked up cases a "girl". According to the TRAs, a man has more right to the word woman then a actual woman... It makes my blood boil whenever I notice this.

[–]theytookourjerbsXX only.[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Any natal female under 20 should only use girl, as well as anyone referring to a natal female under 20. I even cringe when they refer to women in their 20's and 30's (albeit 20's and 30's are still young) as girls.