DiscussionBi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions

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[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

You could try out a vagina if you want, but you’re still having sex with a woman. If it helps you to understand your orientation better, so be it. But if you enjoyed it, you’re bisexual, you may still prefer men but you’re still bi. If you don’t enjoy it, then you know you’re gay.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Do you think we need to sleep with opposite sex to know our orientation?

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay[S] 5 insightful - 3 fun5 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

aLL vIrGiNs ArE aSeXuaL!

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

No. Gay people know that they’re gay without having to sleep with the opposite sex. There are people who are confused, and maybe sleeping would help, though I wouldn’t recommend it.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I recommend it. I don't see the problem of fucking the opposite sex if you feel like it and want to get the experience. I don't need it, because I know I'm not into dick. But if I had some doubt I would do it no problem.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I would personally not recommend risking pregnancy just for the lulz.

I would also not recommend potentially stringing along a straight person who could develop feelings for you only for you to be like "Oh whoops, guess I'm gay after all."

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 2 insightful - 5 fun2 insightful - 4 fun3 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

There are condoms and hookup is just genitalia humping for one time. We're not talking marriage. Sex isn't sacred, and if you want the experience you should do it.

[–]TransspeciesUnicornI sexually identify as a mythical sparkly equine 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Condoms aren't foolproof. I knew a chick in high school who was still conceived even though her parents were using a condom AND birth control. Also, it's not entirely uncommon for dudes to intentionally slip condoms off.

And well, if you're a woman, having random hookups with strange men can carry a whole other set of risks. Like they find your dismembered corpse in the woods three weeks later sort of risks.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good point. I know I’m not into women, and not into vagina, but some people don’t know.

[–]thump 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

You're missing the point. Sexual attraction is what causes one to be interested in sex with another person.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yeah I know. There are people who seems to be sure whether they like to have sex with some kind of genitalia before living it.

[–]thump 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I thought that was the case with everyone I find it impossible to fully understand, but I guess the human mind is complex enough.