DiscussionBi men in gay spaces – examples of constant homophobia, misinformation and undermining our definitions

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[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

The amount of woke bisexuals has honestly gotten out of control. Woke LGs who use platitudes like 'yeah I'm gay and I'd date a transwhatever' aren't as impactful because they'd never act on those words. I'm sure it doesn't feel good to hear LGs say those things, but most of them haven't really thought about what that entails. The ones who delude themselves into thinking they'd be fine with it and go out to date a trans person find out quickly they they can't stay aroused when presented with an opposite sex body after the clothes come off.

Woke bi's though, they follow through. The ones who are chasers can stay aroused and have sex after the clothes come off. They go back and preach about dick to lesbians and about vagina to gay men. It's annoying and you have every right to be frustrated.

I will say though that I agree with others who point out that this more of a TRA thing than a bisexual thing.

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

The amount of woke bisexuals has honestly gotten out of control.

In my experience, most of them are straight people larping though.

They see bisexuality as an easy way to obtain oppression points to flaunt around, all with minimal risk involved, as they're predominantly straight leaning and tend to not express said identity outside of the internet (yes, even the ones who live in ultra-liberal areas).

[–]reluctant_commenter 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In my experience, most of them are straight people larping though.

I COMPLETELY agree.

Like, I seriously think we are underestimating the number of straight people LARPing as bisexual. They LARP as lesbians ("political lesbians") and trans ("I'm trans even though I have no gender dysphoria and have zero interest in transitioning and am not even GNC"), why the hell not LARP as bisexuals? Especially when bisexuality is arguably the easiest to pretend to be; a straight person could just be like "I'm sexually attracted to the opposite sex and I'm only romantically attracted to the same sex, I just like hugging them" I'm not even joking lol I knew someone like this in college. Perhaps this is a Gen-Z-only phenomenon, or it's more common on the internet, but it is real.

[–][deleted] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

True. And I'm exhausted lol. I do think there are a lot of bisexuals who are drinking the Kool aid though. They don't have as much to lose by adopting TRA rhetoric because the language around bisexuality is already fucked.

[–]reluctant_commenter 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Woke LGs who use platitudes like 'yeah I'm gay and I'd date a transwhatever' aren't as impactful because they'd never act on those words. I'm sure it doesn't feel good to hear LGs say those things, but most of them haven't really thought about what that entails.

Ehhh, I would say they're doing a lot of harm too. "Woke in the streets, TERF in the sheets" as the saying goes... I do sympathize with people who say that stuff out of fear, knowing they'd be shunned or bullied if they dared suggest that they have a sexual orientation, or as TRAs put it, a "genital fetish." But it's pretty harmful as well.

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'll concede that point. Trans bullshit is just a parasitic leech that kills everything it touches.