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[–]reluctant_commenter 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I like to use words to convey meaning. In the case of "homosexual," the meaning I'm trying to convey is, "I'm only attracted to people of the same sex as I am." That informs my boundaries: I am only willing to date people of the same sex as I am. So I would use the word "homosexual" to communicate that boundary to a potential partner.

Boundaries are important, and accurate labels can help us communicate them.

[–]Clitorisk 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

I'm only attracted to people of the same sex as I am.

As a categorical rule, gay men and lesbian women are not attracted to trans women or trans men, respectively. Is communicating the fact that you are "homosexual" clearly communicating that boundary, if a trans woman and cis man are a homosexual pairing?

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Yes. Trans woman and "cis" man are a homosexual pairing.

[–]Clitorisk 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

So you would date a trans person of an acceptable sex?

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Theoretically, as a lesbian it is possible yes. If I was given a choice between a trans woman and a trans man, I would choose a trans man because of the female body, especially the p*ssy. However, I'm femme lesbian only attracted to other femmes, because I personally am not attracted to masculinity. Besides, trans men have effects of testosterone as well, which makes them have masculine voices or a beard, which is highly unattractive because they end up having a mix of female and male sexual characteristics. Oh, and I want woman who want to be woman lmao.

However, there ARE lesbians out there who have or are dating trans men. Lesbians who are into butch women are more prone to date trans men.

TLDR: Trans people end up having a mix of male and female sexual characteristics, even if their biological sex is, more often than not, easily clockable. Therefore, it's perfectly reasonable if anyone doesn't want to include trans people in their dating pool, regardless of their biological sex. In fact, anyone can exclude anyone for any reason at all.