Colonization"Lesbian bottom" happy for first time with transbian

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 28 insightful - 6 fun28 insightful - 5 fun29 insightful - 6 fun -  (19 children)

the trans idiots made this shit up. We just called them lazy pillow princesses back in the good old day

[–][deleted] 26 insightful - 1 fun26 insightful - 0 fun27 insightful - 1 fun -  (17 children)

I hate the whole top/bottom thing being used for lesbians. It makes no sense. Especially with the way they try to present it like every lesbian is either a top or bottom.

I assume this is because their entire idea of what lesbians are is from porn so they assume there's must always be a strap-on involved.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Thy have this idea about a relationship based on dominance and submission in strict roles. It's horrid. But lots of youngs lesbians buy this bullshit

[–][deleted] 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Being a young lesbian in this period of time must be horrible. I feel like I'm just barely old enough that I missed the bulk of the insanity, any younger and I'd have people trying to tell me I'm really a man or trying to convince me to take dick when I was less sure of myself.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not all country have the same level of madness, thankfully. In the USA and Canada there is the peak of this idelogy.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We are catching up in Oz and New Zealand is a lost cause.

[–]ChunkeeguyTeam T*RF Fuck Yeah 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

"cis-hets" are using it to refer to their relationships these days as well. Clown world.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Top or bottom in a straight relationship?! 🤔🧐🤯 That's literally just asking "whose the man and whose the woman in the relationship" except there's already a man and a woman involved...

Is a straight woman a "top" just when she pegs her bf? Is a straight man a "top" during PiV sex? This makes no sense....

Can we go back to not loudly proclaiming our sexual preferences on social media, I miss those days.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

Gotta get that heteronormativity in there. But don't dare misgender them, so the "man" and "woman" of the relationship can't be called such, we need to invent new words to describe the imaginary gender that is imposed upon the lesbians in order to properly oppress them. But to say that every single one is a top or bottom? Even with gay men, where those terms actually apply, there are tons of versatile guys and sides. It's just flat out heteronormativity for dominance

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Yeah, lots forget that in gay couples plenty are versatile, and makes sense since you both have a dick and an asshole. And even top and bottom doesnt mean submissive and dominant.

[–]hufflepuff-poet 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

And all gay male sex doesn't involve penetration. I was actually surprised when my gay friend told me he rarely does any sort of penetration (top or bottom), I had assumed penetration was the main event for gay guys.

I love how different gay and lesbian sex is from each other and from heterosexual sex. This is why I don't think our sex terms are interchangeable, we have completely different bodies and sexual experiences.

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa[S] 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Vast majority of the time involve anal as main thing, but yeah not all gays like anal. I actually had read a comment on gaybros saying that in the past main event was oral and anal became a main thing with porn following heteronormativity, since anal looks a lot like vaginal sex. But being gay doesn't automatically mean you must to like to play with butt.

[–]insta 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I've had to reread it like 5 times because I don't know who is actually what and what's going on.