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[–]usehername 23 insightful - 5 fun23 insightful - 4 fun24 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

Back when I was more of a TRA, I served (food service) a man who was clearly a "transwoman" (dressed in women's clothes, lumpy fake titties), so I called him "ma'am" to be polite because I'd read that doing that makes a trans person's day (cringe). He got a boner and started telling me about how soft his new shampoo made his hair. I wish I made that up lol. I think he thought he had "tricked me" into believing he was actually a woman instead of just being polite and it must've been a huge turn-on for him. This was back before I knew about AGP.

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Oh god, he was wearing tight enough clothing that the boner was visible? Disgusting.

Autogynephilia in public is inherently rapey. No trans activist will ever be able to convince me otherwise. They're basically demanding all people, lesbian women in particular, essentially be unwitting sexual tools for them. Fucking gross.

[–]usehername 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Oh god, he was wearing tight enough clothing that the boner was visible?

Jeggings :X

Autogynephilia in public is inherently rapey. No trans activist will ever be able to convince me otherwise. They're basically demanding all people, lesbian women in particular, essentially be unwitting sexual tools for them. Fucking gross.

100% agree. Subjecting people to your kink without their consent is rapey as hell and there's no defense for it. It should legally be considered sexual harassment.

[–]SuperGayIsOkay 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

And the problem is that AGPs have successfully convinced he the public that it's flimsy strawman arguments that are why sane people want to raise questions about what kind of access (bathrooms, changing rooms, etc) are appropriate. It's not because "OOOOOO TRANS PEOPLE ARE SCARY". We know the possibility of someone actually dysphoric who's gone through transition physically assaulting someone in a bathroom is statistically low. The problem is that autogynephiles feel entitled to force women in particular to provide them with access to their spaces and essentially perform validation. It's essentially a sex act for an AGP, and that means you're making everyone in those spaces an unwitting participant. Of course that's not acceptable!