And the problem is that AGPs have successfully convinced he the public that it's flimsy strawman arguments that are why sane people want to raise questions about what kind of access (bathrooms, changing rooms, etc) are appropriate. It's not because "OOOOOO TRANS PEOPLE ARE SCARY". We know the possibility of someone actually dysphoric who's gone through transition physically assaulting someone in a bathroom is statistically low. The problem is that autogynephiles feel entitled to force women in particular to provide them with access to their spaces and essentially perform validation. It's essentially a sex act for an AGP, and that means you're making everyone in those spaces an unwitting participant. Of course that's not acceptable!