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[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 39 insightful - 1 fun39 insightful - 0 fun40 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

This is such a weird comment for a lesbian to make. I think you're just projecting the way your body experiences pleasure onto others. That's no better than people saying that because they are attracted to both sexes and have a preference for one, that every straight or gay person chooses to be gay or straight.

Lesbians are attracted to women and women alone both when sex is occurring and when it isn't. Lesbians are attracted to female bodies, including and especially female genitalia. I don't know any lesbians who are attracted to sex toys whether or not they use them. Strap-ons are sex toys that are temporarily attached to women who have female bodies 100% of the time. The woman wearing it still has a vagina, vulva, breasts, a female skeleton with wider hips and butt, and other female sex characteristics. What penises and strap-ons have in common are that they are both shaped to fit inside a vagina and many women regardless of the sex or sexes they are attracted to experience pleasure from penetration. I don't know any lesbians who use dildos that are even shaped or made to resemble penises, but let me know if you do.

Many women orgasm from penetration and there are women who orgasm primarily from penetration. My girlfriend is in this latter category and is very obviously and indisputably a lesbian, definitely not attracted to men/male bodies, and would never be attracted to transbians who have obviously male bodies whether artificially altered or not. I also used to think women like her were a myth. In contrast, I'm incapable of orgasming from penetration alone so yea, strap-ons are not going to get the job done for me. Strap-ons/dildos and other sex toys are tools. No more. No less. Not evidence of attraction to biological males.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I think you're just projecting the way your body experiences pleasure onto others.

Nope. I made an observation. The “all statements I don’t agree with must be projection” is getting old. But feel free to thinking whatever you like.

That's no better than people saying that because they are attracted to both sexes and have a preference for one, that every straight or gay person chooses to be gay or straight.

This have no correlation with what I said whatsoever.

Lesbians are attracted to women and women alone both when sex is occurring and when it isn't. Lesbians are attracted to female bodies, including and especially female genitalia. I don't know any lesbians who are attracted to sex toys whether or not they use them. Strap-ons are sex toys that are temporarily attached to women who have female bodies 100% of the time. The woman wearing it still has a vagina, vulva, breasts, a female skeleton with wider hips and butt, and other female sex characteristics. What penises and strap-ons have in common are that they are both shaped to fit inside a vagina and many women regardless of the sex or sexes they are attracted to experience pleasure from penetration.

Lol. I vibrator =/= strapon. Both are just toys? Yes. Are they the same? No. One mimics male anatomy (even if it doesn’t look like a human peepee) it’s still phallic thingy attached to your crotch. The other is a handed toy that won’t affect the appearance of female anatomy at all.

And btw you can have penetration with vibrators... actually you can have penetration with finger, toys, and even a fucking hand. Women who do the strapon thing do it because they like it, not because without strapon there’s no sex to be have. That’s another thing, it is very annoying when women like you act as if liking penetration means you must like and do strapon shit. As if strapon is the only possible way you can be penetrated.

I don't know any lesbians who use dildos that are even shaped or made to resemble penises, but let me know if you do.

I don’t know what this has to do with anything since I never talked about sex toy shapes in my previous comment but I’ll answer anyways: no. But I sure would rather a woman handing a toy that resembles a human penis on me while I can see her womanly body and the beautiful female anatomy than a futuristic/abstract thing attached to the crotch making her look like some alien frankenstein male, yes. But if I can choose, and I can, I choose none. 😎

Many women orgasm from penetration and there are women who orgasm primarily from penetration.

I can orgasm from penetration myself as long as my clitoris is being worked simultaneously. So sorry, you didn’t rock my word with this never seen before piece of information.

I also used to think women like her were a myth.

Also? In my previous comment I never said a thing that could lead you to think I believed such women are a myth. Because I don’t. I didn’t even talked about penetration, I talked about strapon. If you think penetration cannot exist without strapon that’s on, not on me. If you thought women orgasming from penetration is a myth that’s on you, not on me. There’s no “I ALSO”. If anyone is projecting, I would say it’s you.

In contrast, I'm incapable of orgasming from penetration alone so yea

Sorry I guess?

So I stand by my opinion still. As I said in my previous comment it’s a unpopular opinion. No need to get all dense, I was having a good laugh and still am. You can disagree and move on but you won’t (effectively) lecture me nor change my mind on my wrong opinion.

[–]emptiedriver 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

One mimics male anatomy...The other is a handed toy that won’t affect the appearance of female anatomy

But I sure would rather a woman handing a toy that resembles a human penis on me while I can see her womanly body and the beautiful female anatomy

have you ever actually tried a strap on? You have a lot to say about how things visually appear, but when you're in the moment all that really matters is how things feel, and if she has the skin, smell, touch, lips, body, eyes, back... of a woman, and you're climaxing, you might take advantage of technologies now and then. No one needs to use vibrators, but, on the other hand, sometimes they're fun. That's how most people who've used strap ons feel about them. It just gives you another option.

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

have you ever actually tried a strap on?

Have you not actually read my comments mate? You already have your answer.

but when you're in the moment all that really matters is how things feel

Speak for yourself. If that’s you good for you. I like to watch my woman when I’m fucking.

No one needs to use vibrators, but, on the other hand, sometimes they're fun. That's how most people who've used strap ons feel about them. It just gives you another option.

Yeah. I agree anyone can fuck however they please. Just like anyone can think whatever they think. Many of the answers to my main comment are really good examples of why the strapon thing annoys me. Read them. From the women saying shit like they like strap on bc ‘just bc they are homosexual doesn’t mean their vagina doesn’t work’ Doesn’t that imply not using strapon means your vagina doesn’t work? Or worse, women who don’t like penetration at all means their vagina doesn’t work? (Doesn’t sound a lot different from lesbophobic hets saying lesbian sex isn’t real sex, unless there’s strapon) To women implying again and again, you can’t have penetration without strapon, by saying “b-but I penetration, some women like penetration”..

(Not talking time you individually) but if you do strapon it is because you like, own it. Quit the penetration argument. And quit playing the spokeswoman for women who like penetration. And stop implying sex between women is either strapon or eating “pussy” or that must have something wrong with women who don’t do it. These are things EVERY strapon woman say everywhere, every time the topic is strapon.

I wouldn’t mind these people IF they didn’t throw generalizations left and right about lesbian sex and penetration. These generalizations are always associated with all lesbians in the end of the day.