have you ever actually tried a strap on?

Have you not actually read my comments mate? You already have your answer.

but when you're in the moment all that really matters is how things feel

Speak for yourself. If that’s you good for you. I like to watch my woman when I’m fucking.

No one needs to use vibrators, but, on the other hand, sometimes they're fun. That's how most people who've used strap ons feel about them. It just gives you another option.

Yeah. I agree anyone can fuck however they please. Just like anyone can think whatever they think. Many of the answers to my main comment are really good examples of why the strapon thing annoys me. Read them. From the women saying shit like they like strap on bc ‘just bc they are homosexual doesn’t mean their vagina doesn’t work’ Doesn’t that imply not using strapon means your vagina doesn’t work? Or worse, women who don’t like penetration at all means their vagina doesn’t work? (Doesn’t sound a lot different from lesbophobic hets saying lesbian sex isn’t real sex, unless there’s strapon) To women implying again and again, you can’t have penetration without strapon, by saying “b-but I penetration, some women like penetration”..

(Not talking time you individually) but if you do strapon it is because you like, own it. Quit the penetration argument. And quit playing the spokeswoman for women who like penetration. And stop implying sex between women is either strapon or eating “pussy” or that must have something wrong with women who don’t do it. These are things EVERY strapon woman say everywhere, every time the topic is strapon.

I wouldn’t mind these people IF they didn’t throw generalizations left and right about lesbian sex and penetration. These generalizations are always associated with all lesbians in the end of the day.