you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]howdidthishappen 26 insightful - 9 fun26 insightful - 8 fun27 insightful - 9 fun -  (3 children)

The OP is something lmao

I’m not pansexual? Nor do I have a vagina

In response to someone saying that being pan and having a pussy might be the reason that she doesn’t fit in gay men’s spaces. The dude she replied to then posts her own post saying that she’s pan, but is kind enough to not post the multiple pussy pics she posted in r/FTMpunished (wtf?).

What’s going on lol

[–]CuntWorshiperWomenholic full time | vagina fetishist part-time 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Lurking that do give you an idea of who these poor souls are. 9/10 of the women there seem to get off being degraded, raped, beaten. Which kinda confirms my theory that all these women who go trans have being abused and are trying (and failing) to cope with their trauma. That’s why they’re so self hating.

[–]reluctant_commenter 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Yup, that is one large demographic of transitioners. Subgroups of transitioners that I feel like I see most often:

  • people on the spectrum (ASD), with ADHD or OCD, are more likely to identify as transgender, according to studies; they get an obsessive fixation on transitioning, and are told that "becoming your true self through transitioning will fix all your problems!"

  • people who have been through sexual violence; "mind-body disconnect" and alexithymia are relatively common reactions to sexual violence and "mind-body disconnect" is listed as one of the "signs" that you're transgender, so assault victims (who are often avoiding thinking about the traumatic event(s) they've been through) are like, "Oh, this symptom of mind-body disconnect must be because I am transgender"

  • people with a paraphilia-- AGP or AAP-- or who otherwise fetishize same-sex men and women

  • people who are LGB and have internalized or externalized pressure to "admit that you're a man in a woman's body" or "a woman in a man's body" (the old homophobic saying)

  • girls/women hating being a woman, having a period, etc.

  • people who are trying to jump on the trans hype train to cash in or obtain social status from trans identification (I honestly think this is the least common group)

edit: And to your point, I'm curious which of the groups is most likely to "get off being degraded, raped, beaten"-- just seems like having a past history of sexual violence before choosing to identify as transgender is such a common theme.

[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

From what I can see, 'gay' FtMs seem to be paraphilic ones, since they're the ones who have convinced themselves that if they enjoy gay men as a fetish, they must be one too. Also they can't understand that some men are actually not attracted to women in any way shape or form, much like men who can't understand why some women aren't interested in men, period.