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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian 40 insightful - 1 fun40 insightful - 0 fun41 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

We shouldn't have to disclose it because sure, preferences I guess, but it really shouldn't be that big of a deal in the way that it is. And I'm not talking about abuse victims or a preference. If it matters that much then change your sexual identification since you wanna exclude trans people.

And when we changed our sexual identification to indicate that we want to exclude transpeople (super-), then you whine about that as well.

Also cannot stand that the only way (in their view) that you can justify not wanting to sleep with the opposite sex is to have been sexually abused or assaulted. What happened to 'no is a full sentence' and 'consent can be retracted at any point'?

[–]Neo_Shadow_LurkerPronouns: I/Don't/Care 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

We shouldn't have to disclose it because sure, preferences I guess, but it really shouldn't be that big of a deal in the way that it is.

Maybe it's a big deal because some trans people actively catfish people by using clear cut deception?

Like Aideens who put padding in their crotches in order to pretend to have a bulge? Or MtF who abuse filters on dating apps in order to deceive lesbians?

Hell, I could apply this to HSTS who tuck out their dicks in order to deceive straight men.