Perhaps this is one of those delightful LGB generational differences?

I think it is. My gay friends who are into gender woo still wouldn’t ever pull that kind of nonsense. I do think their gender obsession, more than anything, is a reaction to a lot of the impotence we have felt and trauma society inflicted on gay people. I don’t think this is something that many of the most vehement Gen Z TQ activists have experienced. I think for a lot of Gen Z, their sexual orientation has not ever been made to feel like a source of shame, depending on their ethnic, religious, and socioeconomic background ofc. And so they had a very different experience coming out as gay and don’t see it as consequential. Consequently, pride/the LGB(T) community has an entirely different meaning to them and is more like a team sport than a support group.