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[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

In part, it's why I can't be bothered to give two shits about detrans women beyond lesbians. Beyond maybe their families, they really don't give two shits about how their actions within our spaces impacted us (or how their actions when refused entry into our spaces impacted us). Same goes for heterosexual men who detransition versus gay men. They treat us like we're not human, like they didn't get us alienated from our social supports, threaten our jobs, or sexually violate us.

[–]yousaythosethingsFind and Replace "gatekeeping" with "having boundaries" 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Some detrans heterosexual women care. Waffling Willow on YouTube is one such person who has made it a priority to expose and discuss the homophobia and cult-like environment of the modern trans community. She's done great videos assessing her experiences in the trans community against the BITE Model of Authoritarian Control and exposing the Boxer Ceiling.

[–]CaptainMooseEx-Bathhouse Employee 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Fair point, but I do feel like Willow is an outlier. Especially when compared with some of the women on r/detrans or FtMtF Youtubers such as Daisy Chadra, Maritza Cummings, etc.