you're just as valid as the asexual girls who have sex with 10 guys a month and still consider themselves asexual because of whatever trauma they feel for having no sexual attraction or emotional bonds. maybe it's trauma or maybe it's psychological immaturity. Or the asexual women who have no sex but enjoy romance. It's just a lever and intensity level and not a sexual orientation. You're most likely a gay man who's been broken in half psychologically when you were a child. Fine. Good for you but it doesnt need an identity. The overwhelming majority of your community is narcissistic, horny straight girls bullying, harassing and invalidating what you think are the "true" asexuals which are people like you. go on twitter and see how they incessantly bully anyone who doesnt represent them or put them first in any "asexual" representation.

Asexuality was almost exclusively for gay men. And you all show signs of "gayness mixed with internalized homophobia". Meek, kind, intelligent, compassionate, insightful, shy, almost apologetic for your existence and borderline pitiful. That's a very stereotypical broken gay person. Where are the dumbass asexuals? Where are the obnoxious, disgusting, repulsive, annoying asexual men? Where are the asexual bullies that are males? The dominant ones who can crush your face in the palm of their skull. The ones who dont read books. Where are the asexual men driving big dirty trucks saying "TRUMP 2020!". Funny how every single personality trait you have mirrors typical homosexual males but i guess we'll all ignore that.

The only obnoxious dominant asexuals i see are the narcissistic straight girls who've flooded your "identity" and bullied your "community".